If not, you'll have to. Really.
There's a lot of innocent honesty in Elf's character. You know? The kind of honesty that has no agenda. It's just honest with an undercurrent of caring.
Have you ever just come out and said something without editing it in your head? I think even people who are known to "not have a filter" really do have a filter. Their's just works differently than those who want to be polite. Generally, they want to shock and that's how their editing software works.
Next time your software kicks in, settle into the moment. Find your compassion. Tell your agenda-less truth.